Love can be fickle, yet it is so
important.
Yes we all wanna be loved, but it should not be rushed. We don’t
want to just love the next person who comes along. The question is how to find
our true soul mate. Moreover, how do we keep from hurting even killing the ones
we love.
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JD is a wonderful lady who enjoys the attention of a young man as much as
the any girl. But for some reason or another, guys seem to fall in love too
fast for her and they are quickly head-over-heels.
Many start talking of marriage well before
she is ready.
So JD has a tendency to
call things off and break their hearts. The pattern then repeats and she wishes
she could warn them off.
That’s where her tattoo comes in. After a 10 year relationship with one
particular man, she realized she needed to move on.
His heart and several others were broken in
succession.
In a way, she was killing her lovers.
What a perfect symbol, a Black Widow Tattoo.
The Black Widow spider has a venomous bite and the females of some species
are known to devour their male after copulation. JD selected this symbol and
strategically placed it close in her pubic area. When a relationship progressed
and got far enough along that the tattoo was revealed, she could outline in no
uncertain terms that if things moved too fast she would have the tendency to
back away. They now had clear warning and could proceed at their own risk.
It certainly gets the message across and the imagery is stunningly
real.
JD recalls one day in a doctor’s
office, the practitioner was clearly taken aback. Of course it didn’t help that
he was Arachnophobic.
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For anyone wondering, there is now a new man in her web and things are
progressing at a comfortable pace. Sounds like there may be a new chapter to
this story soon.